Adult children

                                                MATTERS OF THE HEART                                  "You're not use to driving fast are you?" A response to the check engine light coming on in my white volkswagon Jetta for the third time in a month. The suggestion being that some pipe or other is clogged because air is not passing through due to the lack of pressure going on in the internal processes. (that or your gas cap is not completely on)                          The answer? Step on the gas.                                                         I use to drive fast often.       That was a long time ago.                     Those back roads are not the same anymore.  Those roads thirty minutes south.                                     The farm house my grandfather invested in when I was born was bought by a new family, demolished. A new one to be built. I understand, It would have been expensive to salvage. But that was centuries of memories. Not only for my own f